Life has many curves and turns. Some turns are smooth; some sharp; some other steep. Some have a scenic view of a valley of flowers while some scream out the pains of a tragic incident… We meet so many people as we glide through these turns --Some known, some unknown……some who come and never go…….some whom we meet for a few moments and cherish the memories of those moments for the rest of our lives…. some who come, whom we don’t want to let go…but who eventually depart, leaving tears behind ( With time, the tears dry up, leaving behind an unfulfilled wish, a dream..…. ) Some people traverse a journey from becoming unknown to known. This occupies major part of our life. Unknown to known…..what a transition!!! Sometimes in happens in a short span of time……at times even in seconds…..and sometimes even a lifetime is not enough!!!!! Human mind and heart keeps searching for people whom it can call its own. It feels a sense of security among such people. That is why it is always in a quest…….quest for those own ones……… THE OWN ONE……….!!!!
Humans spend first half of their lives in finding/searching/hunting for their perfect better halves and the rest of their lives, in thinking and wondering- was the choice Actually THE PERFECT CHOICE???
I know some readers will detest here, saying that nothing in this life is perfect. Everything is relative. We have to make adjustments and lead life. AGREED. But this So Called Adjustment should not end up becoming a Compromise. There's a thin line of difference between adjustment and compromise, if only we realize it and are able to draw it at the right time and at the right place.
I am not pessimistic about people. We do meet such understanding people in our journey. They support us, comfort us, share their space with us, give us their patient ears; They laugh with us, they help us hold our tears back, and if necessary, they let us cry, holding a box full of tissues ready. We humans, basically seeking in nature, start believing that we have found one of our OWN ONE. That person becomes very important in our life. Emotional support is very important for us humans. (I know some of the readers might again detest. May be, such kind of people are strong enough to deal everything themselves. But I am two hundred percent sure that people who claim that they are Emotionally Independent also resort to some kind of support. Peep inside and ask yourselves.) Soon, we start believing that we are in a safe zone. But we learn in sometime that nothing in this life is permanent. We were expecting toooo much from a relationship. The relationship could not take the burden of our expectations and faded away, leaving a mist, a fog. Or, was the relationship not strong enough, right from the beginning, to support us??? After all, having expectations, at least some basic dal, roti kind of needs is our birth right. Was it a momentary illusion?? A mirage??? And if a certain relationship fails to give that support right from the inception, is it worth expecting any kind of commitment from such a fading relationship.
The current trend is of Social Networking. We boast of having hundreds of Friends on our Social Networking list. But how many of them are really worth being called as Friends??? Friends who are Soul-mates??? I would prefer to call this list as list of contacts than list of friends. I know people will again detest with this view of mine. May be there are people who are lucky enough to have Really Great and True friends on their list. May God bless them and their friendship with long life. But what I am speaking about is my own experience. It need not be the same with everyone. After all, every person's life is different. Sometimes we need only one true friend to spend moments with and not a Bunch of The So Called friends who claim to be good friends.
All said and done, all of us (almost), at some or the point of time in our lives, feel lonely, solitary.( I know most of the people agree will agree, but there will also be a bunch of the INDEPENDENT LOT who will again detest. !!!! Can't help!!! People have got used to lying to themselves.) God does balance everything, by sending help at the right time. And if you don't see any help coming, it is a sign that God wants you to evolve. Learning time!!!!
Will it ever be??? Will we ever find those own ones?? Will that one own or owns touch our life with enough intensity that we feel the sense of security????
The answer is right in front of us. But we , Emotional lads, with a cover on our eyes, fail to see it!! God does send help.... every time....in some or the other form. The help may not be from the same source every time, but shouldn't the fact that we are getting help every time be sufficient enough to solve the issue of our solitariness. Help is always there. We should be wise enough to find it and grab it when it is at our disposal. Different people some to our rescue at different times. Sometimes known...sometimes even unknown people end up helping us, though unknowingly!! But help does come our way. So, just keep your eyes wide open, the doors of your heart open and most importantly- your brains open.....
IT WILL BE .....NOW AND......FORE EVER.............actually....IT HAD ALWAYS BEEN...just that we did not realize....!!! :-) :-) :-) :-)
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